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Nowadays new trends are coming out in the relationship. These days Dadt is becoming very popular, which means ‘do not ask, do not tell’. Why is this concept pleasing to the youth?
Partners are not questioned in DADT relationship (image-canva)
Highlights
- Dadt means ‘do not ask, do not tell’
- Dadt Popular in Working and Long-Distance Couples
- Dadt relationship is less likely to quarrel and doubt
What is dadt in a relationship: Couples who are in a relationship, often their partners ask them many such questions like where you were, with whom, where is there a plan to go? Some people like this question and some irritate them. But nowadays a new trend has come in the relationship in which there is no place for questions and answers. The name of this trend is Dadt i.e. ‘Do Not Ask, Do Not Tell’. This means ‘Don’t ask questions, no answer’. Couples living in working couples, live-in relationship or long-destinations are liked this trend.
Relationship expert Priyanka Srivastava says that nowadays people want to stay in a relationship but believe in keeping their personal life private from partner as well. He does not want anyone to interfere in his life. So he is on this fund that ‘You neither ask me questions nor I will tell you anything.’ They do not want accountability in the relationship. Dadt relation is resting on trust and freedom.
Freedom is like
True love is the one in which the partner is left free. Couples do not want to tie each other. The foundation of Dadt rests on independence. The youth no longer want to live in bondage. He does not like to be positive in a relationship. This also strengthens their relationship. Especially those who are in long distance relationship, their relationship lasts for a long time.
DADT relationship increases trust in partner (image-canva)
Most couples have quarrels only when they try to control each other, interfere in each other’s life. They keep an eye on their movement, clothes, food, friends or phones. Many times the partner starts getting irritable with all these things because doubt starts to arise in his mind. These things cause tension and wrangling in the relationship and fights begin to happen. All these things do not have scope in the DADT relationship. Modern couples do not consider it necessary to tell each other all things nor do they expect things to be shared, which would not cause tension or quarrel between them.
Dadt relationship losses
The DADT relationship is successful only when couples are matured. There is a good mutual understanding between them, Igo does not have a clash and both have positive thinking. But in the DADT relationship, the chances of early breakup increases because there is a communication gap between the couples and when the questions and answers are not asked, there is no belongingness between them. That is, there is an emotional distance between the two. In such a situation, if one partner wants to share his heart, then the other can ignore it. This also increases the possibility of deception because there is no emotional bonding. Those who are emotional, they like such people who listen to their words carefully and support them at every step. Due to lack of conversation in the DADT relationship, the problem between couples is not solved and interacts between them also disappears.
Active in journalism since 2012. BJMC from Delhi University and MJMC from Jamia Millia Islamia. Specialization in lifestyle, entertainment and travel. Started a career with All India Radio. Also worked with Ignnau …Read more
Active in journalism since 2012. BJMC from Delhi University and MJMC from Jamia Millia Islamia. Specialization in lifestyle, entertainment and travel. Started a career with All India Radio. Also worked with Ignnau … Read more
