Marriage Problems Due to Pornography: recently UK edition of ‘The Sun’ magazine The question posed by a married 52-year-old woman and the expert’s answer in the question-answer column is attracting a lot of attention of the readers. This question was actually related to the pawn videos playing on the woman’s husband’s mobile. The woman in question shared her heart and also expressed her state of mind openly. She told how she is not able to understand what she should feel about her relationship in such a situation and how she should deal with such situations in her married life.
What was the matter?
The woman told that the distance between her and her husband has increased in the last few years and their sex life has also been affected. But, for some days she was feeling that perhaps her husband was cheating on her. Her husband had become more cautious about his phone in the last few weeks. He used to keep the phone screen hidden from him and reduce the brightness. The woman suspected that he was talking to other women, but one day she saw in the reflection of the living room window that naked women were visible on his phone. This was a very shocking moment for him.
The woman asked- They don’t know whether to feel relieved because their husband is not having an affair with another woman or angry because he is cheating on them to fulfill his desires.
Expert’s answer-
‘The Sun’ Sex therapist Sally Land says in her column that ‘Whether the husband is cheating or not, it still breaks the wife’s trust and can hurt her emotionally. Sally advised that It would be best to confront this problem head-on. It is possible that they may have resorted to porn to fill that void. If possible, both of you should take help of sex therapy and go to the therapist together. This may be the solution to your problem.
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Why is sex therapy beneficial? Sex therapy after 50 can be beneficial for many couples, especially if you are going through physical, mental and emotional problems. Physical changes with age such as hormonal changes, decreased sexual arousal, and physical pain are common problems, and sex therapy can help understand these changes. At this age, if the emotional distance has increased between the couples, then sex therapy can help in reconnecting the relationships and bring each other closer not only on the physical but also on the emotional level.
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first published : November 29, 2024, 2:16 pm IST
